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Okay thank you. This makes a lot more sense than anything I’ve read, or anything that has been explained to me prior to this. Every time its been explained to me its been made out to be like, you’re born with a vagina, so you’re a girl, and you like boys.
i was not, in ANY way, trying to bash transgenders or tell them how to feel/who to be/etc.
i worded that entire post horribly, and in fact, i’m going to clear up my point a little better.
first; the asterisk, i had no idea what it meant and i apologize for using it. i did not know that it was a symbol of transmisogyny, and i will not use it any longer.
when i said you shouldn’t be offended about jared leto, i wasn’t trying to say “you have no right to feel like this.” i was saying, of all people, don’t let a celebrity get to you. most of them are full of themselves anyway. i get that the media has a huge influence on how people view the LGBT community, but when something like this happens, you don’t have to get so defensive. it’s normal to get slightly offended but when you let it really get to you, you’re not helping fix the issue and you’re hurting yourself.
((i really think the people themselves should take a larger stand in the recognition of the trans society because leaving it up to the media is clearly a bad idea))
personally i think the main part of having a large amount of self esteem is how you view yourself and how confident you are with the person you are. you gotta not give a shit what people think because to be honest, the one person who’s left, ALWAYS, is you. and maybe your spouse, if you’re into the whole marriage thing.
and as for cisgender, i honestly don’t understand the whole concept of it?? maybe it’s never been explained properly to me or what but it just looks like being straight to me. idk idk.
but, again, i am truly sorry to anyone who i offended because that was not my goal in the slightest. i’m just really dumb with words.